Q: Hello and good work on you're site...however you mention that witnesses are taught that they can't have a relationship with Jehovah because of this teaching of mediator, I have never thought that, as far as we have been taught is that Christ died for us all including the GC [great crowd], and we pray to Jehovah through Christ as our mediator, also we are taught to safe guard our relationship with Jehovah and to study and pray to strengthen our relationship with him.

So we hear this all the time and read it in publications, no one I know doesn't think they are not in a relationship with Jehovah and we do call him father and regard ourselves as his son or daughter.

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A: Thank you for writing. I don't mean to imply on my website that we are taught that we can't have a relationship with Jehovah; but rather I am saying that our teachings on the new covenant, Christ's mediatorship, sonship with God, etc. etc., hinders us from having the sort of relationship with Jehovah the way he has meant for all his sheep to have. This is due to our teaching of elitism, that is, the only ones that can truly enjoy a close relationship with Jehovah are the anointed. Says The Watchtower, (February 1, 2004, p. 9 par. 4, "Lord, Teach Us How to Pray"): "Spirit-begotten Christians are adopted as “God’s sons,” and to him they can “cry out: ‘Abba, Father!’” While concerning the “great crowd” of Revelation chapter 7, it says that they "are not at this time declared righteous with a view to being accepted as God’s sons." w69 3/15 p. 182 Declared Righteous.

Speaking of the special relationship "God's sons" have with Jehovah, a 1962 Watchtower article said this: "On the basis of their faith and dedication and the ransom God declares these righteous, which means that while they are still in the imperfect flesh he gives them the right to human life. This they sacrifice so as to be able to accept God’s call to a heavenly reward, by means of which God recognizes them as spiritual sons.
   These, having been ‘born again by the water of the truth and God’s holy spirit,’ enjoy a most precious relationship with God as his spiritual sons, all based on Christ’s ransom. God is their Father in a distinct and personal way. They have access to him in prayer, and at all times their affairs are his concern. They have the witness in their lives that they are God’s sons, while he is preparing them for life in the heavens. (bold mine)
w62 1/15 p. 38 Benefiting Now from Christ’s Ransom.

But that is not Jehovah's view. The shepherds have no more of a "distinct and personal" relationship with Jehovah than have the sheep over whom Jehovah has appointed them to feed and care for. He has appointed shepherds for the sake of his sheep, not sheep for the sake of the shepherds. He will hold his anointed shepherds accountable for the way they have dealt with his sheep. Read Ezekiel chapter 34, just one example, that the Society applies to the clergy of Christendom instead of to themselves.

Suppose you were born into a family with a large number of brothers and sisters. (My parents had eleven children.) And suppose the father entrusts the oldest son with the responsibility of looking after the well-being of his younger siblings and care for them. The older son takes that to mean that he is indeed very special to the father, the only one who is a true son, and thus starts to dominate his younger brothers and sisters, even telling them that, although they can call their father "father", he doesn't really consider them to be his sons or daughters. Also, he insists that they, not being genuine sons and daughters, don't have any inheritance rights as everything that belongs to the father really belongs to him, including the necessity for all to obey him. Yes, of course, they realize that the father cares for all his children by providing them with a roof over their heads and food on the table, but they believe that he does so only through the older son who keeps reminding the others that he is the only one to enjoy that privileged close relationship. He even has taken the authority upon himself to expel from the father's household any of his brothers or sisters who dare to disagree with him. As long as everyone obeys the elder son there seems to be peace, but some of the children have decided to move out and fend for themselves, while a few others may even feel that they are better off in a foster home. What do you think? How would that situation affect the relationship of the children with their father? How close would they feel to him? And further, if the father genuinely loves all his children, what do you think will eventually happen to the older son?

This simplistically illustrates in what way many of us have been affected in our relationship with Jehovah. I have received numerous letters from brothers and sisters who have told me that they were never able to cultivate a close relationship with their heavenly Father because of feelings of unworthiness. If they didn't understand certain things about what we have been taught (perhaps because of inconsistencies or contradictions) they thought that they were not qualified to understand such things as everything has been written only for the anointed, the Father's only true sons.

In Ezekiel Jehovah condemns his appointed shepherds for having had his sheep in subjection "with harshness...even with tyranny." (Ezek. 34:4; 1 Peter 5:2,3) Instead of feeding his sheep they have become feeders only of themselves. They have trampled on the good pasturage meant for his sheep and befouled their clean waters. The result has been, as foretold, that many of his sheep have become skinny and sick, or scattered and wander about lost. Ironically, it has been especially trialsome for those who trusted the "faithful" slave's interpretation of prophecies the most. Of course, not all the sheep suffer to the same degree, but the reality is that in the last thirty-five years we have lost approximately one third of our brothers and sisters who once attended meetings with us and shared in the preaching work. Keeping in mind Jesus' illustration of the man having 100 sheep and one getting lost, and the effort he took to look for that one lost sheep and the joy of finding it, gives us a pretty good idea of how Jehovah views these many lost ones, and that he will hold accountable all those who have been guilty of sharing in their dispersion. (Ezek. 34:11; Luke 15:3-6; 12:45,46)

Although there is the appearance of teaching us to worship Jehovah, much of what is being taught today in our publications, and at our meetings and conventions, has to do with instilling in us greater loyalty and trust in the self-proclaimed "faithful and discreet slave," namely, the governing body. (compare Psalms 146:3-5; Matt. 15:8) (Although the Society officially teaches that the "faithful and discreet slave" class includes all anointed Witnesses, they apply special status only to the governing body members. See The Watchtower, May 1, 2007, page 31) They have even hijacked the Memorial of Christ's death, making it uniquely their own day. Often, on that occasion more time is spent on emphasizing their superiority over the "other" sheep than on Jesus himself and the value of the ransom he paid on behalf of the sheep. (John 10:14,15) Although it is true that Jehovah has chosen a "little flock" of 144,000 to eventually rule in the heavens with his Son, it is good to remember that while still on earth they have been given the responsibility of feeding and caring for God's sheep. Only if they do this conscientiously and faithfully, with humility, will they receive the greater reward of sitting on heavenly thrones. (Luke 12:32, 42-46; John 21:15-17)

Jehovah will tolerate our present situation only a little while longer, as he has promised to "deliver [his sheep] out of all the places to which they have been scattered in the day of clouds and thick gloom," his great "day of fury" at Armageddon. When the time comes for Jehovah to "hold an accounting with them," these wicked shepherds will discover that "probably" they are not among those who may "be concealed in the day of Jehovah's anger." (Ezek. 34:12; Jer. 6:15; Zeph. 1:14,15; 2:3)

I am glad that you feel close to Jehovah and your faith is strong. You are in a position to encourage others in your congregation who feel they do not have that same relationship. (See another letter) May Jehovah continue to bless your faith and keep it strong in the days ahead, for the apostle Paul forewarned regarding the last days that "wicked men and imposters will advance from bad to worse, misleading and being misled." (2 Tim. 3:13)

 
 

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